Had our US first where it was revealed that bennett has grown 200 grams (6 ounces) since our last appt which is GREAT! :) small leaps. I also had some concerns of clef lip/palate and wanted the radiologist to check and she see if that is something they see. Based of this US and reviewing of last US they don't feel that is something he has which was a relief for me because I know how much more difficult things can become with that and bless the hearts of children and parents that do have that!
When we met with Dr. Shaffer and our Genetic Counselor we enjoyed our time. Lots of jokes and giggles which was wonderful for all of us. It was a Monday. Enough said! :)
He went over his weight growth and was very pleased. The dopplers were still great and fluid was great as well. So he feels given this information that we will see him again in 2 weeks.
Last week we had discussed a vaginal delivery so I wanted to express my worry about that. I told the Dr. my hesitations about going through with that due to the stress that could happen to Bennett during that time. I told him I'm leaning towards a c-section because as a mother, your selfless for your child and the thought of causing any stress to him and further complicating things for our son is disheartening. He eased my fears saying that going through with a vaginal is what he feels is best for me AND bennett. He stated that we have had 2 successful and quick labors and he feels that a vaginal delivery won't do any harm to Bennett but of course he had to give us that warning. He mentioned that at any sign of ANY stress we would talk about the c-section at that time but he is extremely hopeful that this experience will go just as the others. We will start monitoring contractions closely towards the last few weeks as OHSU is about 45 minutes away and he understands the stress of having to get there in "labor". I feel much better after discussing it but am also thankful that he will respect my wishes of a c-section if Bennett isn't tolerating the natural way if you will! :)
Chari and I also had our blood drawn to test which/if any of us is carrying the balanced translocation which will help better identify the 11p syndrome. If neither of us have the translocation then they will need to test the amniotic fluid taken but may run into issues with the cells being to old to test, if that happens, they will run tests on his cord blood after birth. We will wait for those results in a week or so.
We had a great appt and meeting as usual with all our doctors. God has still given us strength and overwhelming peace in our situation which we are grateful for. There are many unknowns still to come but we continue to Believe and trust in whatever the Lords will is for our son. He has done miracles already for our son as we see it and will continue to do so throughout his life. God is good and we will continue to praise and thank him in this storm!
Blessings and thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts over our family. We are blessed with amazing support systems but more importantly with our God who never leaves nor forsakes us. How amazing is that!
You may not be able to tell but here is a picture of Bennett covering his face with his arms and hands not allowing the radiologist to get a look at his face! :) we found lots of humor in this! :)
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